Wednesday, October 15, 2008

To the Country!

Heading to my hometown for a few days.  Off we go, into the wilds of British Columbia's interior to breath in the fresh air, see the wild folk that live there, and learn more about Faerie wisdom from Senay. Will soon be back in this cozy kitchen after brief adventure into the mountains. 


Until then, "May the long time sun shine, all love surround you, and the pure light within you guide your way home..."


Home Again... Home Again Jiggitty Jig!

Monday, October 13, 2008

The 5th Cup of Tea~

The rain is a comin down today and the dark days of late autumn seem to have officially descended upon us. It is without question time to cozy up indoors with warm socks and hot soups.  There is a pot of barley soup bubbling away on the stove-top and fresh bread baking in the oven as I write this. The smells that permeate this little green cottage make the darkness of this grey day quite wonderful. Yes, indeed, now is the season for steamy cups of tea by the fireside and after dinner sing-along's with good friends that extend into the dark nights until candles burn down in their holders and disappear.  

Speaking of friends, I just found this excellent Chinese proverb that I am bursting to share.  It comes from Robert Johnson's book "Lying with the Heavenly Woman" and it goes like this:  

"Chinese culture has a gentle way of talking about friendship: their proverb is the that the fifth cup of tea between friends is the best.  Tea was made in old China simply by pouring hot water over loose tea leaves in a cup.  The explanation of the proverb is that when friends meet, busy and tense form the outside world, the first cup of tea is drunk hastily and without much grace. The second pouring of water requires a longer time to steep the leaves.  This is better.  The third cup requires still more time.  The fifth cup stands for an appreciable length of time before the tea is of the required strength.  It is this fifth cup that becomes the symbol of friendship at its best." 

So here is to a winter filled with cozy teas in the company of wonderful friends, to food and music and laughter shared ~ And to start our teatime travels off good and proper, Mark has just brought home some more of his beautiful pottery.  I will attach a photo to this post of his latest creations for you all to enjoy.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

A Breakfast of Poetry~

Whenever I can, I try to start my day with poetry. Some people like to start their days with a hearty breakfast, or yogic breathing, or brisk walks, or a strong coffee, but not me.  No, I  feel I need to feed
my soul first. Once I am full to the brim with inspired words, I go to the kitchen and make myself something delicious to eat, before I find my dog and his lead, and go wandering out into the morning. 

So here is one from Rumi that began my day today, and my lovely cats too.  So far it is having a most excellent effect on us.  I hope it will have the same wonderful effect on you too.
















OKAY, I'LL DO IT

Okay, I'll do it:
sing longer songs tonight because sometimes
you're just so damn hard to please, and I guess I am
still courting you, trying to get into 
your souls knickers.

What makes you like that-grouchy around the edges?
What classrooms have you lounged in;
what nonsense have you traded 
your gold
for?

How can you look so needy,
God is growing in fields you own.

He hangs from trees you pass every day.  He is disguised as that
peach and pine cone.

Every sound I hear-he made it.

I have been walking with two canes these days-
guess why?

It is because of His beauty and that blond peach fuzz floating
everywhere like dust-

it has made me
so drunk.


~Rumi

Friday, October 10, 2008

Our Wanderings~


"...As the romantics  put it: we are defined not by what we are or what we do, but by our Sehnsucht (german -wistful, longing): Tell me for what you yearn and I shall tell you who you are.  We are what we reach for, the idealized image that drives our wandering."
From Blue Fire: Selected Writings by James Hillman p. 286.

I woke up this morning with this James Hillman quote on my mind and felt compelled to share it with you.  I apply it to my soul like a soothing salve whenever I struggle to locate my identity.  And although I'd like to say I know who I am, I don't always, but I do know what I love, and what I long for, and what I am searching for in this beautiful life.  And so, these words, well, they help me to rest; they give dignity to my human quest.  

And if you haven't read anything by James Hillman and your interested in the souls quest, I highly recommend him.  I am currently devouring his book "The Souls Code," it is the kind of book that begs you to fold down every page and underline almost every word.  The kind of book you want to buy a thousand copies of and leave at random bus stops.  The kind you want to secretly drop into friend's handbags when they are not looking and see on college reading lists around the world.  ( well this is my opinion anyway).

Image by: Charles van Sandwyk 


Thursday, October 9, 2008

The Best Medicine~

Having spent the morning in a nest of blankets, sipping hot honeyed herbals for sore throats and stuffy noses, with my dear dog-friend Gus, I am convinced, that dogs, are all nurses in disguise. They are also the best hot-water bottles and foot warmers.  Beyond this, they are easily the best company and have the most exceptional bedside manner.  I feel entirely cared for and completely loved by my exceptionally cute and cuddly canine care-giver.  He has completely assured me that stillness, a good book, and a warm blanket are just what the doctor ordered, and as Gus drifts in and out of peaceful sleep I give myself permission to do the same.  

I am fairly certain that medicine does not always come in a little brown bottle with a tight lid. Sometimes the best medicine is not anything 
you swallow or sip. Sometimes the most healing thing is a kind of nourishment for the soul; a moment for the soul to drink in and be soothed. And that 'soul nourishment,' for me,  on this day, is in the "grassy outside smell" of the soft white fur of my beautiful dog, it's in the warmth and weight of his relaxed body pressed up against my feet, and the sticky wet dog licks he gives my toes upon his waking.  Today the most healing tincture for me is not in my dark dry cupboard of wild crafted plants and potions, but rather, slumbering away beside me on my warm and cozy bed.

This post is dedicated to Gus, our wonderful dog, loyal friend, and loving nurse.     


Tuesday, October 7, 2008

The Dream-Time


Isn't the ability to go to sleep at night and enter the dream world an absolutely extraordinary thing? I mean, how can anybody actually consciously use the phrase that was "just a dream," like somehow just because this adventure occurs outside of the physical realm it is less important or less meaningful.  To be honest, I think this is what makes dreams even more wonderful, the fact that we experience them outside of our waking lives.

Yes, indeed, I am a big fan of dreaming; fully on board with Carl Jung and his posse when it comes to the sleeping adventures through the psyche.  I think dreams are rich treasure boxes of historical, mystical, and psychological data ready to reveal the most profound and insightful things. I mean every night we have the opportunity to enter in to worlds where anything is possible, where mystery and outrageous possibility are guaranteed.  Even the horrific dark and shadowy ones are deserving of respect and become some of our best teachers if we are interested in listening to what they have to say.


I love becoming familiar with my dreams.  I like to write them down and find their common threads.  I like to look back over them and see the incredible collective tapestry they weave.  I like to sit with my tea, in the mornings, and marvel at their patterns, and themes, and colors.

Lately I dream of apple trees.  Big bountiful apple trees dripping with ripe fruit.  I seem to discover them with a kind of disbelief, as though I had no idea I as going to stumble upon such a magnificent thing. I don't yet fully understand the meaning of these new dreams, but I am certainly open to their wisdom.  

I think the Aboriginal people of Australia are on to something with regard to their Dreamtime philosophy.  I have heard it said that they believe more in the reality of the dream world than that of the waking, and who's to say what's real and what isn't, I certainly am no expert.  I do know though, that when I look back upon the memories of my lifetime to date, I am often not always sure what I did, and what I dreamed.  All I know for certain is that my dream world is an important part of my living, and I am deeply grateful for the insight, healing, and wild adventures I find myself on, night after dream filled night.




Yes, if ever you feel bored with the day to day, I recommend taking a nap.  It's a sure way to find yourself on a spontaneous and thrilling adventure. 

And now, here I go, off to the dreamtime myself, to nurse a nasty little head cold and to discover the secrets of apple trees. 

Sweet Dreams.

Images: "Apple Trees" by Olbinksi and "The Listening Room" by Magritte

Saturday, October 4, 2008

A Note About Faeries~

Having just returned from my mailbox I have discovered the most deelightful surprise.  My 4 and 1/2 year old niece Senay has sent Auntie a letter.  The letter was dictated by her and written by Nana, not less than a week ago.  It then came 300 miles down through the mountains to finally arrive on my doorstep with unbelievable flair.  Of course these letters are always accompanied with fabulous drawings of important things like sunshines, and dogs, and people she loves.  They come in colorful envelopes smothered in sparkly faerie stickers and rainbow glitter pen.  And, I feel it most important to add to this, that if a letter from Senay awaits me, the mailbox is positively glowing from the inside out before I even open the lid.

Senay, is a faerie expert, I don't know if I mentioned that.  Her knowledge of the Little People far surpasses any adult wisdom in this arena.  This summer, while camping together for 10 days, beside a mountain lake in British Columbia's wild interior, she educated me in the department of faerie dwellings, faerie entertainment, and faerie transportation.   


I learned that faeries live mostly in trees and hollowed out mossy stumps, however there are some who choose to live in secret crystal caves and others that live in the water, and, unlike us, breathing under water is not a problem for them.  Fairies like to catch rides on the beautiful stones that people wear around their necks, and to use the words of Senay..."the more sparkly the necklace, the more the Faeries like it."  

She commented on the sparkly quality of my tourmaline necklace, and then, without hesitation informed me that there was a "Faerie Party" going on around my neck, and "was I aware of this?"Late that night, in the wee hours of the morning, when I found myself wide awake, under a big fat full moon, in my little yellow tent, I remembered the Fairy Party Senay told me about earlier in the day, at which point, I removed the necklace, and instantly drifted off to sleep.  Go figure.  

Senay is also an advocate of Faerie rights and takes particular care of her little friends.  If anything should threaten them in anyway, she rises up to protect them with faerie feirceness. There was some panic at the lake this summer when Opa was eating all the "CHERRIES," and Senay, who was playing in the woodpile nearby thought that Opa was eating all the "FAERIES," and well you can imagine. Otherwise, the only other thing she mentioned that I feel I must report is that if you can't see Faeries, it's only because "your not looking." 

This report was taken in July of 2008.  Senay has been doing  much more research in this area since the date of my report, and is currently trying to discover why there are so many fairies in her mother's hair  in the mornings?
Faerie Image by Brian Froud